We are a couple, and have been in a 24/7 BDSM relationship for the past 25 years and 11 months.  We are both in good health and good physical condition. I am 5'10", 170 lbs.; she is 5'6", 155 lbs. We are nonjudgmental and nonsmokers. We live in the San Francisco Bay Area of California. We appreciate food and wine (without being snobby and drink reasonably priced wine without reservation), the finer things (without needing to possess them), and good conversation.

e has been a slave/submissive for 40+ years and she has known she was submissive and looking for a Master for much longer. e has had two significant such  relations one lasting over 10 years which was not 24/7 in which despite being "soul" mates and his being a very good Top  he was/is not a Master and had/has no such interests - and the relation with me, which is 24/7 and is Master/slave .

e's Slave Register number is: slave number 655603   the direct link to e's Slave Register record is http://www.slaveregister.com/certificate/655603. When you get there if you click on her slave number in the first paragraph there is even a bit more information and a rare brief narrative by e.

    
I have been exploring sexuality since I was a small boy and I have been a Dominant/Top since I was in my late twenties. I have been in two significant such relations, one lasting 15 years which was not Master/slave but was Dominant/submissive - which in the end we came to realize was really Dominant/accommodating, and despite a very deep love was ultimately not constructive or mutual. And, the relation with e which is 24/7 Master/slave.

Master/slave 24/7 relations can be the most challenging, rewarding, and intimate, relations. They take a lot of constant work on both parties part. Being conscious, aware, and communicative in any relation is vitally important, and is certainly the case in a Master/slave 24/7 relation. 

We are positive, respectful, and caring - communicative and engaged in our relationship and with others. We strive to be aware, considerate and conscious of ourselves, the world around us, and others. We are looking for a woman, or couple (Male Dom - female sub) of similar disposition. We seek couples (Male Dom, female sub) to befriend and to play together. And, we seek a submissive woman interested in becoming a bdsm partner with me, and possibly a friend/companion (and occasional play partner as a threesome) to e.  We are interested in long term relationships. But, less than that is appropriate and acceptable as well, including occasional or periodic sessions/play-dates. We are also open to the potential of 24/7. We have the means, circumstances and maturity to sustain such relationships. As of late 2021 we have a submissive erotic masochist sex slave in training with whom we have been developing an online relationship - and as of late 2024, periodic visits as well.

Note: I, the male, am not bi nor bi-curious, though I am entirely comfortable around other naked men and the occasional contact does not bother me in the least. And, e is also not bi, though, if the circumstances are particularly right and there is mutual interest, she will on occasion play with another woman, in my presence, as part of a three, four, or fivesome. e's interest in sex has substantially faded due to menopause and hypothyroid, though we still have sex and bdsm rituals daily., And, neither of us are switches.

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Joshua & e

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